There are no words to express the abyss between isolation and having one ally. It may be conceded to the mathematician that four is twice two. But two is not twice one; two is two thousand times one. – G. K. Chesterton
This is a photo of an event that took place in 1989 that became known as The Baltic Way. Two million people, across three countries (Estonia, Latvia and Lithuania), joined hands to protest their subjugation to the Soviet Union.
It’s always amazing when we see people come together en masse to accomplish something great. I think it’s also incredible when we as individuals come alongside others every single day and keep someone’s head above the waves. There is someone near you right now who needs you. Maybe it’s something as simple as a smile.
“The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.” ―
Don’t you already know the people in your life who need you? A child, a spouse, a dear friend, a partner-in-crime?
There may be people out there who need you every now and then (and then they really do!).
What about people in your life who don’t realize (yet) their need for you (or anyone else)? You’re not one of these kind of people are you?
“You have not lived today until you have done something for someone who can never repay you.” ―
Of course you old folks out there are familiar with Barbara Streisand’s version of People Who Need People -but Shirley Bassey had a version too. Remember Bassey? The only singer to to three James Bond theme songs. Can you name all three?
The apostle Peter wrote to the emerging Christian church these words:
Most of all, love each other steadily and unselfishly, because love makes up for many faults. (1 Peter 4:8, The Voice)
Do you see the important instructions here?
- He has shared a lot of wise counsel, but tells them, “most of all” to love each other. Can you think of anything better to do when you are living, working and sharing with others?
- Don’t love just on Valentine’s Day, do it steadily, because doing it that way keeps our relationships moving more securely and in staying in balance. Be someone who is a constant and consistent presence to others.
- Don’t look for anything in return – be unselfish in your giving of love, which means the giving of yourself, which means time, attention, resources. If you don’t take people seriously they can tell, they then get the message that you don’t really love them (only in word not in deed, 1 John 3:18)
- You’re going to make all kinds of mistakes if you live with people. I know I do, every single day! But if I just demonstrate love it tends to cover over all the failure. If you’ve ever baked a cake and part of it sticks to the pan, you know you can overcome those holes by using extra icing.
“Love is the will to extend one’s self for the purpose of nurturing one’s own or another’s spiritual growth… Love is as love does. Love is an act of will — namely, both an intention and an action. Will also implies choice. We do not have to love. We choose to love.” ―
What’s your advice about helping others? Post a reply. It will help me!
3 thoughts on “Someone Out There Needs You”
Dr. Wilson, you are so thought-provoking in you blogs. Thank you. I must confess that I often steal quotes for my own lectures. Thank you!
Dr. Randy, wise words. The advice I have in helping others is to look at the model of our Lord. His love by means of the actions we witness in scripture would be seen as silly to academia in today’s world. Do we still find relevancy in actions as bold as washing the feet of another?
Wonderful, thank you for taking the time to post – helps so much